Th?r? ?r? l?t? ?f w??? t? ??n??i?u?l? r??r?gr?m ??ur mind, ??m? inv?lv? mind ??w?r t??hni?u??. Th? ???i??t w?? i? t? d??id? ?n n?w g??l? ??u ?triv? f?r, ?r t? think ?f ??ur??lf in a n?w ?nd ???itiv? w??, th?n r????t?dl? ?nd ??n??i?u?l? k??? thinking ?f ??ur??lf in th?t w??. Thi? will ?l?nt th? n?w im?g? ?f ??ur??lf in ??ur m?m?r?, whi?h i? th? ?riv? ?f th? ?ub??n??i?u?. Wh?n th? ?ub??n??i?u? ???????? ??ur m?m?r?, it n?w ???? ??u ?? th? n?w im?g? ?nd th?n b?gin? t? tr?n?f?rm ??u int? th?t im?g? ?lm??t ?ff?rtl???l?. If ??u ?h??? g??l? th?t ?r? n?t r??ll? ??ur? t? b?gin with, ??u will b? ?truggling ?nd m?? ?nd u? ?x????r?t?d ?t ??ur l??k ?f ?u????? ?nd ??ti?f??ti?n.